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How to Overcome Fear: 6 Powerful Strategies You Can Start Using Today

5. You try to push the fear away.

When you try to deny a fear in your life, when you try to push it away or not think about it then it can often grow stronger.

What to do instead:

I have found in recent years that pushing the fear away can certainly work and help you to not be paralyzed from taking action. But I have also discovered that it can sometimes be more helpful to accept the fear.

To accept that it is there instead of for example trying to tell yourself to focus on the positive like a laser-beam.

That may sound a bit vague so here’s how I do it.

  • Breathe. Take a few breaths and focus only on the air going in and out to calm and center yourself a bit.
  • Tell yourself something like: “Yes, the fear is here. It simply is at this point in time.”
  • Take that feeling of fear in and just let it be there in your body and mind. It will be uncomfortable. But just for short while.

Because if you do then after a while – often just after a few minutes of discomfort in my experience – the fear starts to lose steam. It becomes a lot smaller or just seems to float away.

And it becomes a lot easier to think clear and constructive thoughts again.

6. You make it harder than it needs to be to take action.

If you think that you have to take action in a big, heroic and risky leap to overcome your fear then that may often lead to more fear and to not taking any action at all.

What to do instead:

A more helpful way to go about things is to not go all in at once. But to instead just dip your toes in. To take a small step forward but to do it today or as soon as you can.

And to take that first step slowly if you like.

The most important thing is that you start moving. That you start building momentum forward so that you can take more small and perhaps slow steps forward.

Doing things this way will not only build momentum but also self-confidence and expand your comfort zone. And all of this will make it a lot easier to take a bit bigger steps later on too if you’d like to.

Original Source: PositivityBlog

Let this 6 steps bring you closer to destroying your fear and embark on even greater things that you can wish for and to do for!

Personally, I love step 6 where you take your first step slowly and grab hold of things first. Once you build up your momentum, you can go in full force.

After going through all the above 6 steps, let us know which one is your favourite step to overcoming fear in the comment section below!